When looking for a new car, remember that the dealer gets 50% of all options. A sun roof will eventually start leaking, costs thousands, and how often will you use it.
DVD players can be bought at Target for less than $250, with 2 screens, 2 headsets, and fit on the back of the headrests. I saw one that had dual players, too.
Figure all cars with ABS, traction control, rear side air bags, and other "optional" safety gear.
Volvo spare seats only work for children between 70-90 lbs, and then you can forget putting suitcases in the back. Make sure you get "euro rails" if you want to carry stuff on top.
Volvo manual states premium, but 87 octane works fine.
Children need a boring safe car. You need a second car, very used, that you can have fun with, solo.

Klaus
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(V♂LV♂s 1975 164, 1995 854T, 1998 V70R)