So, after a month or so of slowly narrowing the problems down (replaced carrier bearing and rubber support, tail shaft bushing and oil seal, tranny mount, front most u-joint, also corrected the drive shaft alignment) I replaced BOTH engine mounts (meyle brand from europartsdirect). She idles smooth as glass now and the vibration is pretty much gone. I still have some light vibration, but its a tiny fraction of that it use to be. I will post pictures of the mounts later on tonight.

Thanks, for all your help. You guys rock.

Justin