Dear Tony,

I believe it's right in your face:

You are in desperate need of acknowledgement of your long-term project. Your inner self feels unsure of wheather the project is right or wrong - you might have had an experience lately that made you re-think of your choise - to do work on the Volvo or ?(something else, important to your life).

You are also making it hard on yourself - why? - Because of your posts on the Brickboard! How that is? - Well, you post pictures and stories of finished PARTS of your top-class restoration, getting an awful lot of very positive response from fellowship-community - thus raising your goal/standard of/for the final TOTAL restoration even (unreachable??) higher - in other words: By getting tons of postitive response on the restoration down the road - your innerself is starting to be afraid of what kind of response you'll get when the project finally actually finishes!!

The dream is your innerself obstructing your self-demand for a perfect restoration.

Dreams with/about/including Volvo's (with/or/and beautiful women) are absolute a healthy sign for a man! Have NO fear!

When all this is said - the cure is VERY easy:

Start with buying a box of chocolates - make some good coffee and shower your wife (note which date is coming up, just arround the corner!) with love, chocolate, hot coffee and other treats - maybe even a loving back-rub (well, you know where I'm getting..) - all this will make HER understand that she's still a bit more to you than your Volvo AND this will come back to you 10-fold!
A loved wife acknowledgeing your work on the Volvo is far better than 100 envy Brickboarders! ;-)