Thank you both for your input. As I wrote in my original post this happened at both Good Year and Firestone!!! They told me that they broke two breaker bars getting them off but eventually did.

Now my question is what do tell the next person who may have to change a tire on my car since there seems to be so much trouble with getting all four of the tires off. The first time they had me leave it overnight and lubricated them with something and then had to use a truck bar (?) to get them off, this time they just used the force and breaker bars and they finally got them off after three hours.

I never had so much trouble getting tires changed...I didn't think it was rocket science. Should I get another flat in the future I will not go back to either of those places.